Take a Risk, Start a Blog

Last week we ran a contest on Brazen Careerist that asked our community members a simple question: "How has blogging impacted your life?"

As I read through the entries, I got the chills. The posts were amazing. The ways that blogging and online communities have changed people's lives for the better is unbelievable.

I probably can't compete with our winners, but here's my story.

I always wanted to be an entrepreneur. So much so, that sophomore year of college I created a major called Entrepreneurship. I chose my course load and handpicked the classes that would give me the best all around business education.

But the next semester I spent too much time drinking and partying. I listened to the negative people who told me I couldn't get a job without a "real" major. And my motivation to be the next Donald Trump quickly faded away.

I majored in Accounting, and sure enough, I followed the crowd to awkward interviews and boring get-togethers. I interviewed with the Big 4 in New York and D.C. But the interviews never felt right. I didn't want to be there. I was going through the motions and I was looking down on my life, slowly watching it become what I feared most – boring.

I still didn't do anything about it. I moved to D.C. and started a job with IBM. I did good work. I received two raises in less than a year, and my boss targeted me as a top prospect for a spot in an exclusive graduate program.

But the truth is, I was a walking zombie. I was on a project stationed at the Pentagon. It sounds cool, but every time I walked through the endless rows of people in tiny cubicles, and every time I strolled the courtyard filled with folks trying to escape the monotony of their day, I couldn't help but think, "This is totally depressing."

So I started a blog. I partnered with Ryan Paugh because he was a good friend, and he had a Journalism background. The beginning was fairly innocent. We wrote about work, and life and our jobs. We responded to articles that characterized our generation as lazy and narcissistic. It was fun.

Then one day something crazy happened. Paugh was interviewed by the Wall Street Journal. I snagged one of the copies I found at my apartment complex and made the commute to the Pentagon with the paper under my arm and a smile from ear to ear.

Flash forward to today, two years later. I'm sitting in my apartment in Madison, Wisconsin, worried sick about how my blog-based company is going to raise a second round of funding in one of the worst economies since the Great Depression, and how I'm going to make my rent in a few months if I can't pull in a salary. And despite all of this, just like that morning that Paugh was in the Wall Street Journal, I'm still smiling from ear to ear.

I'm smiling because the posts I read this weekend, the posts written by the people who are proud to be in the community that I helped build, gave me the opportunity to step back and look at how much a simple little blog has changed my life in two short years. And I've realized; my life is far from boring.

In two years of blogging I've made new friendships that I would never trade. I've taken existing friendships to a whole new level. I've started an amazing relationship with someone I never would have met if she didn't find my blog and leave a comment. I've had the opportunity to live and work with my brother after six years of living in different states. I founded a company that people believe in. I turned a great mentor into a great business partner. I found the discipline to train for and run a half marathon and I demolished my paralyzing fear of public speaking.

And I've had the pleasure of experiencing all of these things with a community of like-minded people who are all conquering their goals and living out their dreams right alongside me.

Blogging is a beautiful thing.

This Is What Happens When Good Community Goes Bad

Last week, Penn State (my alma mater) overcame its most difficult football challenge of the season—defeating the Ohio State Buckeyes. The aftermath was boisterous. A celebration for Penn State fans everywhere. But back in State College, PA, boisterous turned into raucous way too quick.

Students flooded the streets. Beaver Canyon, the core of off-campus life, became a sea of blue and white. And when I first watched the footage I thought, "Awesome!" But I changed my mind.

You see, I love Penn State. It's still a huge part of my life. And when something remarkable happens to that community, I can be as rowdy as they come. But when a community as great as Happy Valley turns on itself—and ends up hurting itself— it's just way too ugly to ignore.

Communities are a wonderful thing—college communities, neighborhood communities, online communities—and most accomplish great things. But sometimes, communities can turn dangerous. And last week at Penn State was a perfect example.

It's easy to be an asshole in chaotic situations.

I first found out about the Penn State riot online. My younger frat bros who are still in school had pictures up on Facebook. A few sorority girls I knew had links to the footage on Instant Messenger saying how "fucking awesome" it was. To be fair, that was my first reaction too.

But things got ugly. And they didn't get ugly because of a community of criminals. They got ugly because of a handful of criminals scattered amidst thousands in a massive celebration.

A couple of meatheads, drunk off their own stupidity, thought it would be cool to rip down some street lights. Or break some bottles. Or smash some cop-car windows. And everybody suffered.

This kind of thing happens in communities all the time. Big or small, minority behavior tends to put us all in a whacked out situation. It even happens with communities online.

It's like that blog post that organically creates passionate response. Usually the response is civil … but then someone realizes they can say anything they want, with no consequence. And a passionate, engaging dialogue turns sour.

And guess who usually gets burned in this equation? It's not the person who was just there to throw some stones. It's the people who showed up to genuinely enjoy the celebration. They're the ones who end up with mace in their eyes.

And then the blame game begins …

I don't know what happened first at PSU, the rioting or the mace. I'm pretty sure nobody will ever truly know. But regardless, we'll still try to place blame months from now no matter what.

Students will blame the cops, because let's face it: cops are the Anti-Christ to a college kid. And the cops will blame the students, because they're just the spoiled-rotten kids their job forces them to deal with seven days a week. And when I read the post-riot articles online, I can really sympathize with both sides.

Fortunately, the online communities I've experienced are far tamer. But the blame game remains the same. Because how individuals act within any community affects how the entire community is perceived.

If some wild card decided to get slanderous tomorrow on Brazen, there wouldn't be any long-term damage. But someone is going to be offended, or hurt. And when you're trying to build a community that respects one another despite their differences in opinion, you do your best to make sure nobody walks away bruised.

And there's a light at the end of the tunnel.

Just like overcoming great odds as an individual, communities that overcome great odds become stronger and more composed once the next obstacle erupts. The Penn State community will, and so will any other community that looks at what they did wrong the first time and makes changes in response.

I think the first step is to recognize how powerful we are when united. With that unity we can do great things, but can also wreak havoc. And sometimes pride and passion are great catalysts for people with violent intentions.

But I don't think that means that we should dilute ourselves either. We just have to be more aware of the actions of the people around us. And if they're malicious, it's our responsibility to do something about it. And it's harder to do than you think.

But I think that's a leadership skill many of us don't use that often, maybe we don't even have it. But it's certainly one that every community needs.

5 Steps to Never Worrying About a Job Search Again

The economy sucks right now. Every media site you go to is littered with stories about the pending doom and gloom of the job market. But the truth is, if you're young, smart and motivated, there is no reason finding a job should be difficult. You just have to put in the extra time and effort to make yourself employable. So for all you college seniors and recent grads, here's a 5 step process to making sure employers are knocking on your door, and not the other way around.

1. Figure out what your interests are

You hear it all the time, find your passion and pursue it. Well, I don't totally buy it. You don't have to find that one true calling to find a job you like, but you should, at the very least, have an interest in the field you pursue. As far as I'm concerned, being interested means that you would do the work in your free time – without getting paid. You'll most likely have multiple careers throughout your lifetime, so forget about searching for the perfect one.

What do you read about, talk about, or blog about on a regular basis? Can any of those things be translated into a career? I'm sure they can, you just have to get creative.

2. Specialize to make yourself employable

Learn as much as you possibly can about the ONE field you want to work in. It might take a few weeks, a few months, or even a year, but if you devote enough time and energy into learning everything you can about your field, you will be employable in any economy.

We just hired an SEO guru who has a degree in psychology, and was in grad school for information studies. One day, less than a year ago, he decided he loved social media and SEO. Now he's turning down job offers from Microsoft and saying no thanks to consulting requests every other day.

Our newest Software Engineer doesn't have a college degree, but we had to woo him away from multiple other companies in Madison to get him to join the team because of his expertise in open source software development. A 4-year degree is great, but true knowledge and expertise in a particular field will trump a degree any day of the week.

3. Share your ideas with the world (Hint: start a blog)

You can be the most knowledgeable 22 year old in the country on your subject matter, and you can have a great resume, but that's not enough. If you want employers to come to you, you have to communicate your knowledge and ideas to the rest of the world. Quite simply, this means start a blog! Blogging is, hands down, the best thing you can do for your career.

In his post about how much resumes suck, Robert Scoble says that only 1 out of 98 resumes he receives include a blog URL. Think about it, all you have to do to get to the top of the pile is put your URL in your cover letter or resume. And when you get to the top of the pile, your chances of getting the interview improve astronomically.

Additionally, a resume cannot show an employer your personality or express your ideas. A blog can. I wouldn't be in the position I am today if it wasn't for Employee Evolution. And I've heard of countless others who have turned their blog into a job. All you have to do is ask around the Brazen community to find some great blog success stories.

4. Control your online brand

When you decide to put your ideas out there for the world to see, you are making a conscious decision to market yourself as a brand. Dan Schawbel, the king of personal branding, has some great resources for anyone who decides its time to create "brand you." The short version is that you should pick an area to brand yourself in and be conscious of everything you do online.

But this doesn't mean you have to take down every Facebook picture of you drinking a beer. We're all fully rounded people. We all have a social life, and a work life. We just happen to live every part of our lives online these days. Use the appropriate social network or blog platform to show each side of your life, and be conscious of the image you project. But don't be scared, just don't do anything illegal, and you'll be fine.

5. Establish a Network of weak ties

We've all heard how important networking is for your career, but how exactly do you network with experienced or high profile people when you're barely out of school? It's easy, you put yourself out there. Start by researching who you want to get in touch with, then send them an email that adds some type of value and request a quick meeting.

In the past two weeks, I've had the pleasure of speaking with high level folks from companies like Accenture and Ceridian. And I've had random meetings with young CEO's of great start-up companies like Banyan Link and Unigo. I used to be unsure of setting up phone calls just to chat, but I've now realized that that's what successful people do. They connect with other successful or soon to be successful people, just because. And if you want to guarantee yourself a job no matter how bad the economy is, that's what you have to do. You have to create as many weak ties as possible.

There are many different ways to approach your career. If you want to find decent jobs by actively job hunting for the rest of your life, a good approach is to have a degree, a solid resume and some relevant experience. But a great way is to do all those things, and embrace this 5 step process. Do it right and you'll be amazed how many potential career opportunities come knocking on your door.

What My Frat-Guy Years Taught Me About Building Community

Most of you don't know the Ryan Paugh that people knew in college. Most of you know Ryan Paugh "the BC community manager." But back in college I was Ryan Paugh "the frat guy."

And at first, saying that leaves a sour taste in my mouth. Frat guys get a bad rap, because a lot of us flat-out suck. But many of us are actually pretty good guys … promise.

But here's the deal. I learned a lot from my years as a greek. Sure, I partied hard, got up late and skipped a bunch of classes. But I spent a lot of that time building community right outside my door, in my frat.

Here are few things I took away from the fuzzy, fun-filled days and nights I spent with my fraternity in college.

You can get a lot by doing a little.

The worst part about joining a fraternity is the pledge process. But after it's all over, the rewards you'll reap over the next four years (and beyond) are immeasurable.

I try to think about blogging the same way. During the first few months of your blog, you're pretty much at the bottom of the food chain. Hardly anyone wants to talk to you and you're putting a lot of time into something when time is pretty scarce.

Some days you want to quit—and lots of people do—but for those who stay, you get to enjoy a community experience that other people miss out on.

Just like pledging, once you're initiated, the blogosphere becomes your playground. It's effortless to make connections. And if that's all you're looking for, you're in great shape.

But going above and beyond is better.

A lot of people pledge frats, "pay their dues" and coast their way through college with all the perks of fraternity life. But others take a leadership role. They strive to make a difference within their community. These people gain the most out of fraternity life.

Being a part of the blogosphere is very similar. The more you put in, the more you get out.

The Brazen Careerist community has leaders in every niche. They're not just blogging; they're making their niche better or even the entire sphere better.

A telltale sign of a community leader is someone who takes it beyond the blog. They connect via email, on the phone or in person. They're finding ways for bloggers to work together and they're actually creating a movement for change in some cases.

I like to think about it in terms of the people in the frat who would stay in their rooms during a party versus the ones who left that sanctity to be more social. Sure, you can lure people back to your room to party, but you're a lot more likely to experience something fun if you throw yourself amongst the masses and let loose.

Mixing it up is a good thing.

My favorite thing about frat life was our diversity. We weren't the homogeneous crew of greeks you see in movies. We had lots of differences. And it's what made our house so distinctive.

And what would any good community be without a little diversity? What I love most about being Brazen is all the perspectives and passions we share. We are all quite different, but at the same time, united by the common desire to build relationships with fascinating people.

And sure, you may think frat guys are far from fascinating. But the good frats aim to be. Mine was. We had the meatheads, but we also had philosophers and some-day corporate execs. We were far from dull, and that's what most communities should strive to be.

There are tons of different people with different agendas in the blogosphere. Some are writing, some are commenting and some are just reading with little-to-no visibility at all. But they're all fulfilling a role that's important to any community's existence.

Inter-fraternal relations are vital.

It only takes a moment for a good party to go bad. One second you're drinking a beer, the next, you're getting jostled around in the midst of a frat-on-frat brawl. Lame.

Community leaders try so hard to build relationships with similar organizations. Then, out of nowhere, beer muscles get the best of someone and all goes sour.

It's understandable. Everyone wants to be at the best. And in a way, you are, of course, competitors. But like anyone who understands community knows, it's better to have an alliance with the competition than a vendetta against one another.

When building online community, establish good relations with your competition and try not to talk trash too much. The party is a lot more fun when you don't have to worry about bad blood over spilt beer

Because in the end, it's all about throwing a great party.

That's the biggest similarity between my frat-guy years and my new adventure building an online community. Every day Brazen is working to bring the most thought-provoking mix of readers and writers together.

Our goal: To be the most stellar group of thought-provoking young professionals online. The community everyone wants to party with—the big name on campus.

And maybe that sounds too greek for you … and if that's the case, don't get turned off. I'm far beyond those years (for the most part). I'm just happy to (right now) have my dream job. A job that bonds my party-boy years with the (quasi)-professional I've become today. And I'm loving it.

Why Your Company Can't Afford to Ban Social Networking

Social networking is not a fad. It's not one of those things that people think is cool for a few years and then it simply fades away. Much like the internet did, social networking and social media have changed the way the world works. We're now connected to every friend, acquaintance, girlfriend, boyfriend, and business contact that we have ever encountered – it's a powerful and even revolutionary tool.

Social media has already changed the way people communicate and interact with each other and it's changing the way business works – for the better. But still, a recent Challenger, Gray & Christmas study found that 20% of companies have banned social networking sites from employee computers! If your company is one of those 20%, you should seriously reconsider. Here's why.

It's called social NETWORKING for a reason

Network, network, network. It's all you heard from your parents growing up, your professors in college, and every successful person you've talked to since. Companies inherently understand (I hope) that employees need to network both inside and outside the company because you never know where that next big sale, or new hire will come from. In a recent press release, Nick Ragone, Director of Ketchum's Communications & Media Strategy Group says, "Banning these types of sites would be the equivalent of asking your boss, 'Do you think I really need to make sales calls or network; can't I just hang out in my office and wait for the phone to ring?' "

Of course not! Why then, would any company consider blocking a website that allows all of your employees to be in one giant virtual room with the best and brightest from inside and outside your industry? Sounds like a case of short-sighted management to me.

Social networks are the best place to recruit

Yes, I'm aware that "passive job seeker" is the big buzzword in recruiting these days, but there's a reason for that. Passive job seekers are the people your company really wants to recruit. They are the ones who are perfectly happy in their situation. They make a good salary, they enjoy the people they work with, and their employers are happy with their performance. But they still hang out on social networks, they're actively involved in online communities, and they read blogs. And they will listen to a more attractive job offer if your company can create the online presence you need to connect with these people.

Active job seekers on the other hand, are actively searching for a job for a reason. They're on Monster, CareerBuilder, and JobFox because they really want to get out of their situation. But, chances are, they are in a less than perfect job because they couldn't get anything better. You may find the occasional gem of a resume in your inbox, but you'd be much better served to connect with the people you really want through Linkedin, Twitter, or Brazen Careerist.

Social media can directly impact your bottom line

Social networks and blogs are very much about networking, connections and conversation, but if your company big whigs won't go for anything that doesn't directly impact the bottom line, show them that social media can do that too.

The Washington Post reports that Marriott made more than $5 million in bookings from people who clicked through to the reservation page from Marriott's corporate blog. I don't know the exact traffic numbers for Marriott's blog, but I do know that the longer blogs are around, and the more you write the more direct traffic you get. And in this case, an increase in direct traffic will no doubt lead to an increase in revenue.

If you hired right, your employees will not waste work time on social media

Ketchum's press release pretty much sums it up when they say, "Yes, there are a few bad apples that may waste time on these tools, but they will find ways to waste time even if they don't have social networking sites – they will find something else to distract them."

Top employees, the employees you should hire, will spend time on social networking sites, but they will not do it at the expense of getting their work done. There are only two possible reasons that your employees are wasting time on these sites. One reason is that you hired the wrong people, and you should get rid of them ASAP. The other option is maybe your company needs to provide more work to employees or re-think how you define employee engagement.

Some companies are so obsessed with controlling employees, they've failed to see that banning social networking at work is no different than controlling the number of employees who received a PC in the '80s and limiting the number of employees with internet access in the '90s. And we all know what a great idea that was. So go ahead, ban social networking at your company. But do so at your own peril.