Finding Happiness, On the Other Side of the World

Published by Guest on May 31st, 2007 in Money, Work/Life | 3 Comments

by Nitant Bhartia

It's not everyday that we meet a guy with such a great perspective on life. Nitant Bhartia lives in Bangalore, India and is just finishing up his Bachelor's in Information Science. He also works as an intern at a software firm called EDS. He really enjoys what he does, but is troubled by the people around him who don't share the same luxury. Here's a little insight to help you stay on the path toward happiness like Nitant.

Remember the last time you sat down peacefully and thought about what truly makes you happy? No? Well hopefully this will get you thinking…

Most of us are so busy with our daily routines that we tend to forget what we aim to achieve as an ultimate goal – what everything in life finally boils down to. No, it's not money…I'm referring to something far more superior, far more real and true.

Happiness! Come to think of it, that's ultimately what we all wish for in life. Everything we love provides us with it. If you observe closely enough, happiness comes in just one type, no matter where you find it. Whether through money, fame, success or even shopping, it has only one face to it – a happy face.

It takes some courage and effort to direct ones energy toward achieving happiness. My advice is to frequently self-assess the level of joy in your life. Don't wait for it to come tomorrow. Make it happen today. Get addicted to it.

Easier said than done, right? It may take a bit of an attitude adjustment before you're ready to maximize the pleasures of your life. Here are some points:

1. Set small realistic goals. More Positive Results = More happiness.
2. Do charity work. Spend time with those less fortunate than yourself. A smile on their face brings a bigger one on yours.
3. Don't look for material happiness. It will always be limited by the money you make.
4. Feel happy for others, genuinely. You will feel truer within.
5. Do something constructive that gives you pleasure, everyday. Be it cooking, dancing, blogging or anything else under the sun.
6. If you're stuck with a job that you don't like, find another one you do like. You can't spend half of your life doing something you don't enjoy. Phone cards.

Happiness is not expensive. It's not even for sale, but it's priceless. It sometimes comes in small doses, but there is no end to which it can grow. Nurture it, constantly. You deserve every bit of it.